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I’ve never really put myself out there. Not for sale anyway. I write a mean resume, but that’s simply the weight of my past. My twitter was super active for its first eight years or so, but it never felt terribly substantial, and I certainly wasn’t hawking a product.

So pivoting into this role, especially during [gestures widely at the state of the world]? It’s daunting. But it’s also my dream. Even as a kid in the nineties, I was poring through AD&D and Palladium books, drawing my own maps, building my own classes, dreaming up new worlds and adventures for my friends. I’ve spent over two decades making my own character sheets for games because the ones included weren’t doing the job for me.

Setting up shop. Rolling out. Prepping for production. I’ve got a lot of things competing for my brain meats — being a parent, caring for my partners, keeping up with my day job. But even within the realm of hobbyist game design, it’s a wild dash for attention, with autistic special interests and ADHD hyperfocus constantly steering my energy into new and wondrous things.

With a wide range of Cortex microgames in my backlog, what do I work on? Push forward? Mythikal: Wand & Steel, which is basically just bog-standard fantasy? coreTEK, which is basically just cog-standard mecha? Nah, I’m gonna take something utterly out there, and (relatively) unique, and make it my flagship. Whiskey Grits n’ Demon Spittle is a weird west game set on terraformed Mars, and it carries every bit the energy of Omnybus’ poem which inspired the title.

Somethin’ wicked this way rides.

When did I know?

I’ve tried in vain thumbing through my archives the last couple days to find an essay I wrote for a writing class 14 years ago. It chronicled over half a dozen distinct moments when I’d questioned or confirmed my gender and/or sexuality. I read it out loud to my classmates, who were super accepting (Santa Cruz does get some things right). For the record, coming out shows up on privilege checklists – cishets never face coming out at all; I’ve done it a couple dozen times.

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Coming out

Hi everyone. I’m a transgender woman.

This is not a surprise to most people who’ve known me 8+ years. I was much more open about it then. I think I’m going to frame this post like a question/answer. Which may be awkward, so I’ll drop any TMI stuff at the end, with a warning. Some of these questions are things you should never ask a trans person, unless they volunteer the information. Basically, think of it this way. If you have a question in mind, and you would think it tremendously rude to ask of a cisgender person, don’t ask it of a trans person. Continue reading

Edge of the Empire: Kids!

So yesterday was Father’s Day, right? Right. Had a decent day – got an enjoyable breakfast at Biscuits, grabbed new shoes, and dropped by our FLGS to see if I was interested in anything. Of course… I’m interested in pretty much everything, but who has that kind of budget? Wrath of Ashardalon? Game of Thrones LCG? Lots of options, but not the most free time. So I grabbed a dish of static grass (which looks badass on the figure I used it on, btw) and FFG’s Edge of the Empire Beginner Game.

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